You,
Never Forget
You meet someone, there is this
instant connection and you connect on such a deep level, you don’t know it’s
special. It just so magnetic and natural as if you’ve known each other before.
You’re drawn like a moth to light. It just happens. That instant connection,
that flick of flare, that beat that makes your heart skip, that’s a soul mate
connection. The love of your life so to speak.
It’s also that terrible heart ache that rocks your world to the core.
It’s that devastating blow to your world where you can’t speak, you can’t sleep
and overall you just lose your sense of time. Nothing else matters. That
terrible heart ache you never thought would end. Those endless nights you lay
there awake, not able to sleep because you’re so overwhelmed by grief, it truly
is a terrible loss. It hurts, really, really
, really hurts.
I
really loved the movie the Note Book. It’s one of my favorites. Not because it was this cute love story, but
because of its accurate portrayal of soulmates. A boy falls in love and he never forgets. He
gets older, but he never truly forgot her. He was lucky because in the end, he
gets her back- but I have to say this isn’t always the case in real life. And that’s ok! Soul mates, I hate to burst
your bubble, but sometimes, (most of the time, ) you’re not supposed to live
happily ever after! Everything has its cycle, and you get some and you lose
some. Soul mates are no different, as a matter of fact, my angels have taught
me, not only through my own life experiences, but for the clients I have read
for, that soul mates come into a time in our lives when we are ready, they
break our hearts so we can heal. When our hearts are broken, we can pick up the
pieces and rebuild.
The cracking of our hearts is an
amazing experiencing, that yes, hurts like hell. But it’s also amazingly
healing because when it is broken, we are totally vulnerable and open . They leave us during this period of heartache
alone because on a soul level, we need to heal in solitude so we can build
strength. Sometimes the lost is so
great, we can’t see the truth behind the pain. Once the air clears, we really
do walk away from that relationship a better version of ourselves. That heart
ache brings us life. It breaks our hearts and it makes us “feel” again. No one wants to have their heart broken, but,
how can we know how much we truly loved if we never experienced the lost.
I deliberately picked the Lovers
and the World card, for my blog post today. I did this because I believe these
two cards are a great way to show a soulmate connection. The lovers card can be
mis-leading, although it says “ lovers” its not really about romance. Its about
us coming to a decision in our lives and we are being asked to decide- and this
card reminds us to follow our hearts and choose what we love and what will make
us happy. When we re-incarnate, we actually choose our soul mate connections.
We get together with our spiritual team and we ask what lessons can be learned
and what experienced will help enlighten us.
You and
your soul mate actually decided together- to have this connection in this life!
Yes, it was no accident- it didn’t just happen and fate didn’t just align. You
two came together and decided on a soul level, that you loved each other so
much, that you would do what was needed
to help each other grow, even if it means hurting them like hell. It is after all, for the greater good- like I
said, you may not get it right now, but trust me ; it all happens for a reason.
The
World card is all about learning the lessons we are destined to learn and then
restarting the cycle because we have a new lesson to learn. You will find that you will often repeat soul
mate connections. Not because the lesson didn’t get taught, but because you learned
one lesson and its time to learn the next. Because of this, you never really
forget. You can forgive and heal, but you never forget. Just as the world go
rounds and round, so does your soulmate connections. It’s not a never ending
cycle, don’t look at it like that. It’s more of an evolution cycle. Each time
you end one chapter, you start a new one with new lessons for growth. One day
You’ll complete your book, but that probably won’t be today.
Are
you in need of healing?
Are you still broken from a previous love affair? Did the
love of your life leave you broken and unable to heal? Maybe this is why you
are so drawn to reading my work. Maybe you’ll find some comfort and learn
something today. I don’t believe in accidents. I believe in synchronicity. I believe
you came across my work at the perfect time for your soul. You have a fragile
heart that is in need of deep healing and I’m happy to say that you can
experience great healing today with the Full Moon we are experiencing at this
very moment.
No
other card in the Tarot can symbolized this healing time more accurately that
then the 8 of Cups. There are many cards
in the tarot that can symbolize healing and letting go, but for me- the 8 of
cups has always shown me a soul mate connection that is in the works. The 8 of cups
depicts a full moon, and a man who walks away with a cane in his hand. He is
moving upwards and away- this shows his healing journey is beginning and it won’t
be easy climbing over those emotional mountains but he is ready and willing. He
has cane that he uses to support his journey, this cane is symbolic of your
spiritual team at your side aiding you in your healing. The 8 cups are all sitting upright which
shows emotional fulfillment and a desire to heal. The full moon is a great symbol for healing
and letting go. If you wish to release anything, the full is the perfect time.
Imagine your heart full of heartache and you’re ready to release it. It also
depicts a new moon which is a great symbol for manifesting.
After
we decide to heal and are ready to let go, we can manifest love again! Let go
during the full moon, and make room for new love at the new moon! What do you need to do to heal? Absolutely nothing! If you can across this article, its because your spiritual team is guiding you to it, they are letting you know you ready to heal and they are helping you. If you see the full moon tonight, breath and let go. Open your heart, feel it expand with each deep breath. As you exhale, release all that once was.
Soul
Mate Facts:
#1 Instant Connection - What is the first sign of a soul
mate connection? You meet and its instant
connection. It’s like magnets- You’re drawn to each other. It feels like it was just meant to be.
#2 you’ve known each other in another life. Yes this is true. If you don’t believe in
reincarnation that is ok, but I am willing to bet that most of you who are
reading this, believe that its true. We have all lived many life times before
this one, and everyone in our lives now, have lived with us in another life but
probably played a different role. When you reconnect with your soulmate- its as
if you’ve known each other before, there is a familiarity you feel on an
energetic level. You’re very comfortable
with each other because there is no fear there. They’ve been in your space before so you’re
familiar with their energy. You’re more open to them because of that
connection.
#3 They aren’t destined to stay- contrary to popular belief,
a soul mate connection doesn’t always end in happily ever after. If it did-
what would be the life lesson in that? Yes we all deserve happiness and all the
bells and whistles, but the soul mate contract isn’t for that. You will meet
someone one day, who you will love whole heartedly and grow old with but that
perfect someone is very different from your soul mate. Your soul mate- is someone you made a deal with
in another life. You two came together and agree, together, that you would help each other learn and
grow. This growth requires heart ache.
Your soul mate will connect with you, open your heart, and then upon their
exit, will crack it wide open. This devastating heart break will crack open
your heart, and allow you room for
growth and maturity to prepare you for your life partner, the person your meant to fall in love with and grow old with. Your soul mate will come do his job, and upon
completion, he will move on. Just as you will do the same. They don’t hold on
because they aren’t supposed to. They are supposed to get you ready for a very
big part of your life. Because of this,
Soul mate connections are often short lived.
Although they are gone, you never
forget.
#4 their job is to help
us open our hearts. I know when you get your heart broken, it’s very difficult
to understand how this can be healing, How can this really open your heart,
when you feel so broken you just want to build a wall and protect yourself? We are supposed to learn to love and to
forgive and let go. Life is full of ebbs and flows. When we fall in love, and
we hold on, fear holds us back. Its stops our souls growth. We are afraid to
live because we fear heart ache. That’s why we make these soul contracts- our
soul mate has taken on that burden and challenge of breaking your heart. They agree to do it because they love you so
much that they know the hurt will be followed by amazing healing. It’s like having kids, you have to let them
fall and get hurt so they can learn and be better people. Soul mate
relationships are the same thing, they come into our lives, awaken us, show us
that we can be amazingly happy and then they walk out- they need to walk out
because if they don’t, you’ll never learn what it means to really forgive and
let go.
#5 there is healing in heart ache. It sounds crazy I know,
but it’s true. You don’t know how alive
you are until you’ve felt reality hit. Love is amazing and it can sweep us off
our feet and take our heads into the clouds. Its takes away from reality and
life which isn’t healthy. We are supposed to be human and feel humanly things.
It’s what keeps us grounded. To experience
pain and suffering is to learn compassion and forgiveness. How can you learn
one without the other? People who live
in “ lala land” are still going through
a big life lesson and maybe they needed a break this life time so they hit the
pause button. They aren’t ready to heal, so they don’t want to feel anything.
We call them “crazy” but in truth behind that is pure denial which is a
protection mechanism. Again, on a soul level, there is a lot of lessons to be
learned. Do not judge because what if
that was you? What if you experienced
such heart ache that you were afraid to love again so you hid in the darkest
corners of your mind? Does that shed new
light and compassion? Let me also ask you, would you have that type of
compassion had you not experience the lost yourself? If you did not experience heartache you would
not understand the pain, nor would you have the compassion to understand. Do you see now, how a heart ache can be
healing?
# 6 WE HAVE MANY SOUL MATES! Did I just ruin your perfect fairy tale? I
hate to burst your bubble, but its true. We have many soul mates. The myth
“there is only one perfect person for me” is false! If this were true, we would
never be happy. The truth is we have
many soul mates for different phases of our lives. Don’t worry if you think the one you were
destined to be with forever, doesn’t work out- I promise you somewhere in your
life, another perfect fit will come along.
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A soul mate
connection with break your heart.
It will crack your
heart In a million pieces and fracture you to the core.
It will allow light
to enter and healing can occur.
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