How to: Manifest Magic with this simple spread

I learned this spread a few years ago, and since then, I have created a few of my own that were a spin off of this one. Its amazing how much you can bridge off of a basic 3 card spread. If your new to Tarot, I highly recommend you practice and master the 3 card spread because it will be a great foundation for you future as a tarot reader.  I became a believer in goals and magic after I had read the book The Secret . If you haven’t read that book yet, check it out- It may change your life as it did mine. Learning the secret and incorporating it with this simple Manifesting Spread has helped me grow immensely in all aspects of my life.

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How to: Manifest Magic Simple Spread

1.       This is a basic 3 card spread. It’s meant to be simple and easy, so please, keep that in mind. Don’t make it any more complicated than it needs to be.

2.        It is used with only Major Arcana cards: why? Manifesting is a significant life event, because of that – we want to only focus on the bigger picture- which is your goal. How do we do this? By only focusing on the bigger picture cards. If you choose to use your whole tarot deck, you can- but again- it will complicated what is meant to be a very simple process- so trust me, Only use Major Arcana.

3.       Have your goal set: This is very important, If you are unclear about what you want, you will get unclear cards. So before you start, I recommend you do some soul searching and really know what it is that you want to achieve. There are no if’s, and’s or but’s here. If you want it- ASK. Don’t let negativity block the magic!

4.       My little tip: Read all the cards UPRIGHT. If you go into the reading with the expectation you will only accept the messages upright, you’ll be must more accurate. If the cards come up reverse, just flip them upright.

FORMULA:

3 cards: 3 important steps: Where you are NOW + How to get there: PLAN = where you want to be: GOAL

 Always remember keep it simple: Now+ Plan = Goal

How to prepare for the magic:

1.       Ask your angels for their help. Angels are big supporters of free will and will not intervene into our lives until we ask. If you ever wish to manifest, start by asking! Yes we get things on our own but it is 10 times more easily done if we had help from those in the spiritual realm. If you don’t believe in angels, you can ask whomever it is you believe in.  

2.       Pull out all the major arcana from your tarot deck – there should 22 cards including the fool.

3.       Shuffle your deck how ever you wish. And pull 3 cards in the order listed in my photo below.

How to break down your reading:  I will offer an example at the end of a full reading.

1.       Where you are now:

This is meant to be a mirror for  you.  Look at this card and accept it or what it is. If you try to make it more then what it really is, you’ll complicated things and cause blocks. The NOW card- no matter what card you receive- is meant for you. Take the message of this card and relate it to where you are now.  You also want to look at people around you and see how they are a mirror for you. This card not only reflects you- but those around you. We often are surrounded around by those who are meant to mirror us.

a.       Example

THE FOOL: The fool often depicts a new journey. This being in the current position of NOW would tell me that I am currently in a position where I have a lot to learn. I’m still very new to whatever it is I wish to accomplish in my goals.  Say my goals is to become a business owner. I have been in this industry for several years, but this fool card tells me I have very little experience in owning a business.  

Once I understand what this card means for me…. I will evaluate the people in my lives. Who in my life can I reflect u pon that is in a similar path. I could say, My sister recently got a new job, or a promotion. She is essentially the fool also because she is on a new journey.

2.       Where you want to be: GOAL.

Each Card symbolize a possible journey or lesson to learn that we are masters at or are destined to be at.  It’s why we have desires to “manifest” it our hearts. Its why we know deep down, this is meant for us. So what ever goal it is you wish to pursue – its because you know deep down,  It’s meant for you. When we do what love, all else falls into place. It’s why when we don’t follow our hearts, we find unhappiness.  Keep this in mind when reading the goal card: If you wish to achieve wealth and success- there is nothing wrong with it, this card will give a different point of view of how to look at this.

a.       Example:

The wheel of fortune: The card of destiny:  My goal is to be a business owner. This card confirms to me that this is truly my path. Is owning a business necessarily my destiny? NO, but what if being a business owner brings me happiness because it allows me to be successful, work for myself and create my own hours which allows me plenty of time to travel or be with my family? Maybe being a business owner means I can change lives by being a good employer who offers good pay and benefits?  Or maybe I want to open a business that allows me to do what I love that I otherwise wouldn’t be able to  do?

When looking at this card: ask yourself all the possibilities and don’t just limit yourself to one thing.

3.       How to get there: The Plan

In order to make the magic happen, You must take action. Take that leap of faith. This card is meant to give you an idea what that leap will be. The important thing here is that you must act upon this advice. Whatever it may be. Don’t focus on instant results because that will set you up for failure and disappointment. Always remember that all the steps you take today are meant to get you one step closer to where you want to be. For some, you maybe very close and the path is only a few weeks, for others it maybe a long journey and will take years.  So please keep that In mind. There is no rush.

Everything you go through today is meant to help you get to where your going and this card is exactly that.

a.       Example:

The Tower. The tower card is one of sudden and shocking change. It’s plan or message here is that you must accept change, or it will come regardless.  Lets just say I’m unhappy in my current job and I’ve been thinking about quiting. This card tells me that if I want to get to my goal, I must quit! If I don’t quit, I’ll get fired or laid off- either way- the change is coming weither I like it or not. And the purpose of the force change is its going to help get on my path. When ever we fall of track- we will always be guided back on to – its just a matter of when. The more resist it the harder the path.

What do I do when this card tells me that a sudden change is coming? And quietly in my head I’m thinking, I need to quit? – I QUIT. If I wish to achieve my goal, I must act accordingly. How your plan is depends on what card you receive.

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My Question:  How do I follow my heart, I want to do what I love but there is no market for it, should I open my own business?

The Fool tells me that I have a lot to learn, I’m still in the early stages of manifesting my goals which is to follow my heart. The follow often shows us that we are young and naïve and we don’t have much experience so there are so many things I must learn. I am currently in the very early stages of my journey and I have a ways to go before I get to my goals.  I know seeing the fool that I won’t get to my goals over night and this gives me hope. I know if I don’t get to where I want to be in the next few months, I should be disappointed.

I really want to do what makes me happy, I want to follow me heart. The wheel of fortune card confirms to me that I am currently on my correct path and I’m going where my destiny leads.  I have to remember also that with the wheel of fortune, we have our ups and downs. This is not going to an easy journey because I have a ways to go but I should not be discouraged because every step along the way will help me become a better person because I still have so much to learn and grow from.  The fool must have life experience in order to be a master at his own destiny.

So now I know where I am, still very new to the whole process and starting a new path.  I know where I want to go is the perfect path for me because the wheel of fortune often depicts us on our journey to destiny. It also tells me that it wont be easy and with every Up there will be a Down.  Looking at the Towers card, it shows me the action I must take to get going.  If I want to get the ball rolling in my favor and start my journey, I must accept the message of the tower and heeds it’s advice.  The tower shows me change is coming, weither  I like it not- its coming. How I choose to move forward will lay the stepping stones for my journey. If I resist the change, it will be forced upon me, I may not be open to change which will leave me with many heart aches and challenged. But… If I heeds its warning and take that leap of faith and accept change as it comes, I open my heart to so much more because I am willing to follow my path.

What I want is to follow my heart, but how do I get there? I must accept the change. Once I Do, I can follow my destiny.

Remember, every card has a lesson, story or journey. There are several ways to interpret a single card, but always ask yourself the appropriate question depending on the lay out and the answers will be clear.

Now:  What is the current lesson

Goal:  What is your story

Plan: What will be your  Journey

I hope you all enjoyed this lesson. Blessings, Cyndee

Adrenal Fatigue, is it real? YES!

7 of wands + 2 of pentacles = 

Work hard, but don’t overdo it.

Diligence leads to rewards. It leads to opportunities. It leads to growth and it builds character. When we continue to put our best foot forward and give it our best and do what we can to achieve our goals, we eventually succeed.

The 7 of wands is a card of perseverance. It’s a card about “where there is a will, there is a way” It’s not about banging on close doors, and pushing through bricks walls. It’s not about working your butt off and getting burnt out.  Where there is a will….. yes there is way…. But ALSO…. Be smart about it!  

You want to work towards to your goals, and never give up- but…. You don’t want to work so hard that you lose site of your goals. You don’ want to work so hard that you forget to breath and enjoy the moment. You don’t want to work so hard that you put yourself in exhaustion and eventually will lead you to feeling burnt out… No, my message for you all today is

“Work smarter, not harder!”

In the two of pentacles, It shows us that we are always in a constant balancing act. It never ends. It’s all a part of life. I meet so many clients that are working themselves to death and pushing themselves so far that they have lost their way. What results in overdoing it is: Tiredness, Depressions, Sadness, Frustration, Anger and lack of self-fulfillment. I myself am guilty of this. I’m always in a constant “go go go” mindset can become very exhausting. Take a moment and look at your life right now, how is your stress level being managed?

-Are you making time for yourself?

-Is your mind always going and thinking and planning?

-Do you ever find you can just sit down and just breathe?

-Are you trying to complete task, but find there is never enough time?

-When you are present, are you really present? Or are you thinking about other things?

A lesson we all need to learn is that there are many things that we need to do--------- BUT---------- we don’t have to do it all at once! Take your time. It has taken me months to understand this very important and valuable lesson.  Last year I decided to put my home up for sale, and since then- my life has been too busy. SO BUSY THAT I LOST MYSELF.

I suffer from “Adrenal Fatigue”

            I will not be surprised if many of you, or someone you know, also suffers from this! Adrenal Fatigue is your body being maxed out in exhaustion. You have over worked yourself so much that your body no longer recognized signs of being tired and you go into “over drive” hence the term “ GO GO GO” You don’t know when to stop because your body has ignored the signs of being tired.  This is a common ailment in our day and age because so many of us are constantly on the go and always having a list of things to do. We have to get to work, we have to get to a meeting, we have to get to school, we have to pick up the kids, we have to get groceries, we have to get gas, we have to… GO GO GO.

Our adrenal glands release our Fight or Flight Hormones. It’s our “stress” center.  Being stressed out is being in a state of “to do” When we get signs of tiredness, many of us ignore this by….. DRINKING COFFEE OR ENERGY DRINKS! Guilty? I AM! I am a big contributor to Starbucks! Over time, we over do it and finally one day we are so worked up that we can do an 8 hour shift no problem, we are full of energy and we can go go go. When we get off work, we crash. We come home and find that we are so tired and burnt out, we don’t want to do anything until tomorrow comes and we must repeat this cycle. Sounds Familiar? I hear it all the time! I am guilty my self!

Signs of Adrenal Fatigue:

-Tired even after you’ve had a full nights rest

-Your fall asleep very easily, the moment you lay down, your out!

-Lack of appetite. So much of your energy has been used up that you don’t have signs of hunger.

-Low energy

-Feeling “burnt out” or exhausted.

How do you fix this? It’s easier said then done, why? Bad habits are to break. But… as I said with the 7 of wands, diligence and not giving up is what pays off.  Work smarter – not harder.

1.      Be aware of the problem. Recognize when you are working too hard and stop. Literally. Stop. Pause, breath, take a really deep breath, and remind yourself “ its ok, tomorrow is another day”

2.      Shutting down electronics at the end of the day.

 When its bed time, Its bed time, not browse the internet time.

3.      Meditation – yes being still and learning to quiet the “noise” of life makes a significant difference in your stress level. Take a 10 second pause in your day to just breath and stop rushing or being on the go.

4.      Reduce the sugar intake. It’s not easy… but baby steps.  Sugar is really taxing on your adrenal glands so the less the better.  Do yourself a favor and cut out those energy drinks! Those are sooooo bad for you!

A New Year Reading is perfect for a birthday. Each year on our birthdays, we get a new chance towards goals for ourselves. Every year we get older, and every year we have new lessons to learn, goals to reach and flavor of the month to taste (experiences) This new year reading will be based off of your birthdate- I will share with you, your 2016 goals and what lessons you can look out for during each month of this new year, starting with your birthday!

For all of you who are born in the month of April, I am offering this as a free reading! All I ask is that you tell your friends and family all about my work and proof of your birthday!

YES, ITS FREE! FOR APRIL BIRTHDATES

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Being in the Ghost land

The Enchanted Map Oracle

by: Colette Baron-Reid

                I want to introduce you all to a pesky little guy I call our “EGO.”  We know our ego is present and taking over our lives when we get Angry easily, we are annoyed by little things, or we are fearful causing us to react in ways that are not like us – Jealous, Insecure and not so nice.  The ego keeps us stuck in the PAST and leads us on this false belief that if we want a better life, we must focus on the future. IT TAKES US AWAY FROM BEING IN THE PRESENT…. It leads us into the Ghost lands.

                We cannot heal if we do not allow ourselves to be present in the here and now. When we become upset or hurt, most people react by not wanting to deal with it- it hurts too much. So they hide, they deny and they run from their problems. The issues resurface and then we find ourselves stuck in the past not able to let go of what has happened that caused the pain in the first place. We become so miserable and unhappy that we want to manifest a better future so we start to focus on a better outcome. Somehow- we end up in this endless cycle of never being happy.

                Lets give you an example:  You have a bad day at work, instead of dealing with the problem and allowing yourself to really feel the anger, you say to yourself “ I’m done, I’m not dealing with this, I’m going home.” Tomorrow is a new day and you say to yourself “ Today is going to be a good day” and again, the problem resurfaces someway, somehow and you think “What on earth is wrong with this place! I have to quit” But you never leave because your so afraid  and you find all these reason why you have to stay. Few weeks go by and your still in the same predicament….

That my friends…. Is the EGO at work… The ego is an inner alarm that makes us feel like we have to react- the alarm rings and we must act quickly on impulse. It doesn’t allow us to take a breath and let us process the moment before reacting. Once we let it rule our lives and it gets out of control, it leads us on a road of unhappiness… Which you all can identify with as:

-Feeling unhappy

-Getting angry

-Be agitated

-Frustration

-Road Rage ---- “EGO HAS TAKEN OVER”

-Insecure

-Jealousy

The ego to me is like an annoying, misbehaved little dog. It’s constantly barking at us. The dog is small so it doesn’t seem to be threatening.  If we get bit, it’s not that bad right? But…  what if it starts to bite other people???? If we do not know how to train a dog, of course it’s going to be misbehaved, hopefully… with experience you start to realize my dog is really naughty… I need to work on his bad behavior so you start obedience training… Like that dog, You have to train your ego.

1.       First rule of thumb: DO NOT IGNORE YOUR EGO. You know if you have an annoying dog that keeps barking, it just gets worst the more your ignore it. When your ego is present, DO NOT IGNORE IT. If your angry- BE ANGRY. If your frustrated be FRUSTRATED. You have to allow yourself to feel what needs to be felt, because if you don’t, it’s just going to keep coming back. Many people don’t want to feel these negative emotions because it’s “negative” and we shouldn’t feel that way. But… you have to break what’s broken so you can re-build.

2.       Second Rule: if you get bit, you need to nip it the butt. Like any bad behavior, if you allow it to continue it gets worst. If your ego leads you to eventually have a very NEGATIVE OUTBURST you need to address it.  We don’t just wake up one day, PISSED OFF. It happens over time.  Address the frustration before it build up and YOU blow up. ( notice how I said YOU and not your ego)

3.       Size does not matter: the ego starts off as a little negative Nancy…  “ you can’t do that”

“ Your not good enough” “Oh, he doesn’t like you” “he is trying to take your job” small little negative comments that seem harmless, but with time, those little insecurities become big insecurities. You start off feeling like you’re not good enough and eventually your performance will reflect that. You think someone is out to get you, and in time people are really out to get you because why…. YOUR EGO IS ANNOYING….. That little dog that looks cute, but is annoying? No one wants to play with it because their afraid it’ll bite. No one wants to be around the annoying little dog.

The ego often takes onto a path that leads to the ghost lands. In this place we tend to get lost and we lose our way. We find ourselves wandering around in circles ( being stuck in the past) we try to follow the “northern star” often finding it leads us to nowhere ( focusing to much on the future) The ghost land brings us a message that we must remain present and BE PRESENT. The ego likes to steal this gift of the present away from us. Why? To be present means that you give your ego no control, you take back your life. Going down memory lane is fantastic and nostalgic, but this journey should be pleasant… Not bring back bad memories. It’s great to have goals, but you have to set them and forget them- don’t focus so much of your energy into tomorrow that you forget about today and then the day is gone.

Being an Angel intuitive people often ask me, how do I handle negativity and I’ll be honest, I’m just like everybody else. I get upset, I yell, I drop F*** bombs and most importantly, I’m realistic. Just because I exhibit those negative behaviors- doesn’t make me a negative person! YOUR ARE NOT YOUR EMOTIONS.  When we are happy, we do not hold it in. We express it loud and clear! Same thing should be said about all your other emotions.

When you feel you have found yourself in the ghost lands; that is the first step into your healing journey. Talk to your ego here and let your ego express what it needs and then walk away. Your ego holds the key to getting out of the ghost lands and until you’ve calmed it down you can’t leave. Like the little dog that barks a lot, you want to say “Stop, I know your upset, why are you upset, how can we fix it” most of the times, the dog just wants to be noticed. Pet your dog, and move on. Don’t ignore the barking and allow the bad behavior to continue because eventually the dog will bite. 

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Inspiration

The definition of Inspiration is “ 1. The process of being mentally stimulated to do or feel something, especially to do something creative.”

For me, the angels have taught me that to be INSPIRED- IS TO BE “IN-SPIRIT”

Today , my message for you all to find inspiration in everything you do. Do everything with purpose and say thanks. Find meaning in everything that you do. Today, as your reading this, pause. Look at right around and pay attention to your environment. Does it inspire you? Are there things in your life that make you feel happy and are beautiful? When we surround ourselves with beauty, it brings us joy. To be in joy helps us with the creative process.  Beauty in it itself, is inspiring.  If you don’t have anything that does that for you, I challenge you today, to change that. Ask spirit to day to help you find something or do something that will help you peak that creative process.

                Why is it important to be inspired?

                When we are in-spirit or INSPIRED- it allows us to follow our hearts and the end result is the path to happiness. So why do you need to find inspiration? Simply put it- so you can be happy. When we are in the creative process, it gets our energy flowing, it gives us purpose and drive. We have something we want, so we have some goal to works towards. We are not living blindly. Many people in the world have no idea what they want, so they remain stuck where they are, sometimes content, and nothing ever happens. Time passes and one day they start to ask themselves, where did the time go? What have I done with my life? I find many of my clients who have hit “mid life crisis” is because they spent so much of their life and energy doing what “they think” they should be doing, instead of really wanting to do what they want.  People stay in horrible jobs because they are afraid to step out of the norm. People remain in unhappy relationships because they think “this is it for me” not realizing you can find love at any age in your life. My grandfather spent many many many years with my grandmother in what I believe to be a “content marriage” It wasn’t until after her passing that I had witnessed the love he had in his second marriage. He really loved his second wife and they spent the last few years of his life together before he passed.

                If you want to live the life you want to lead, live it with inspiration- be inspired so you can inspire others. Inspiration brings light to a dark world.  If you don’t believe me, think of someone you admire right now. Michael Jordan is a HUGE INSPIRATION to so many people around the world…  He came from nothing and made something big for himself and he didn’t do this overnight. It took hard work, diligence and a lot of falls before he made success.  He never gave up- the love of the game of basketball is what INSPIRED him.  You may not feel like somebody today, but what if your story could one day inspire others?  I know my journey, vision and story has helped others. I share my path because I know through my own inspiration, it can help someone.

              

          Forget the doubt, the what if’s and the have not's and start today. How can you be inspired today.  If you find you need help, start with the world around you, if you can’t find beauty- change that. Buy yourself a bouquet of flowers, hang a beautiful photo, write an inspiring quote on your mirror and only spend time with people who uplift you today.  What ever it is, do something that you enjoy. My Sunday will be spent crocheting scarfs as gifts for others, something that  I love to do – it something I made with love.  I’d love to hear your story so please! Share your inspirations ;)

News from Tarot by Cyndee

-Many have asked about my 6 week soul coaching course and why I am not conducting any for 2016. 2 reasons: ( it is scheduled to return 2017)

1.   2016 is a year of creativity for me. It’s a year to have fun and entertain and do things. (I have a personal year of 3)  I have spent that last several years on my own spiritual growth and raising a family and work that I never stopped to smell the roses. This year I have family vacations plans (which I have never really done) , social events that I am committing to (celebrating my 30^th birthday this year! I haven’t celebrated my birthday since my grandfather’s passing, he passed away several years ago on my birthday)  and really just making time for myself and creativity. (Hence the talk on inspiration)  

2. After the loss of my precious little guy Clover, my bunny and two years ago my dog Remy. I realized that I never really let me heart heal- the heart ache hit me with a bang at the end of 2015 and I decided that I needed to rest. 2016 is a year of rest and fun for me. I will continue to conduct my readings, send my monthly messages and conduct healing circles via meetup.

-My Etsy Shop: To simplify my life- I will be moving all my readings to etsy and reducing all my fees to $35.00 a reading. It just makes my life much simpler. Etsy is such a wonderful forum and for all of you who are wanting to sale what you love, check it out- it really is a great way to start and run your business without the headaches.  I am currently updating my photos and will be moving all my readings from my website to  My Esty shop Here

- Meet up Session:  February 27 I will be hosting a live meet up. If you are in or near Sacramento,CA and wish to attend, please contact me.

              

  I have decided to put teaching on hold this year and really put forth more focus on healing, not only myself but also others through my readings and work. 

Powers of a Full Moon

       

  A full moon is truly a magical time and if you have worked with me before, I have probably taught you some neat tips on how you can incorporate a Full moon into your Manifestation to make it even more powerful .  If you haven't, your in for a treat today, as I will be focusing on it since we have a full moon coming this very Saturday! Before I into the goodies, lets talk some history...

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January Full Moon is called the

"WOLF MOON"

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            The Native America's called the January full moon the "Wolf Moon" because it was during the cold winter month on January that the wolves would howl in hunger at the full moon... Neat to know huh?

            Every full moon has a special nick name- my all time favorite is Septembers Full moon which is called the "Harvest Moon" Every Year in September I start to clear out old energy to make way for new things to come for the following year.

What can a full moon do for you?

      A full moon is the PERFECT and IDEAL time to start clearing away any old stagnant energy that no longer serves you, it's all about releasing and making space for better to enter your lives! If you are someone who likes to hold on to things, you maybe find the full moon an unnerving time since the full moon calls for us to let go.

      Most people think of a full moon as a time for the "Crazies" to come out and for things to go haywire, but that is just one way to look at. A full moon is a powerful time because it activates our energy center. The moon's rotation is what causes the waves in the ocean on our planet and if you think about it, our bodies are mostly made of water- so in a way- it does cause "waves in our emotions" How you choose to direct those emotions are totally up to you. It's your choice. You can choose to go "crazy" or really put that energy to driving your life in a more positive direction. 

      Why is a full moon a good time to let go and release? The moon goes through cycles, just as we do, when the moon gets full, it lets go and starts all over in a new moon cycle where it starts as a cresent moon- the same can be said for us as we learn to work with a full moon. As the moon shines brightly in its ever so beautiful HUGE BALL OF ROUNDNESS- it feels " FULL" In order to be re-born again, it must release bringing it back to its cresent form where it has room to grow and become full again. We as human begins are in an every growing state, we are constantly shifting, changing and releasing. For us, when its time to start the next chapter of our lives, we must learn to let go of what no longer serves us. If you don't let go of the old, how can you make room for the new?

        Imagine your closet is full of old clothes and its outdated. You can't buy more because you have no where to put it, yet at the same time you ready for a change as the fashions have changed. You must toss out that old sweater or those lovely jeans you no longer fit so that you can buy new ones.  You have all this money to spend on new clothes, but you never buy anything new because you have too much already. Your cluttered. But, as you start to clear your closet- you make space for new clothes. 

The closet is your "space" the clothes is your "energy" and the money is your "intention"

What is my biggest secret to working with the FULL MOON?

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CLUTTER CLEARING

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     "What Cyndee? Thats it?!"

     YES!, That's it. It sound so simple and easy, but it is amazing how many of my clients have such a hard time with this. The benefits are amazing, don't believe me, Try these next few steps below.

1. List what you would like to manifest. Pick 3 goals.  keep it simple and achievable. Don't wish for a million bucks in the next year- come on lets be seriously people, instead say " I wish to get a bonus or maybe even a raise in the next few months. What ever you want to manifest- keep it realistic. 

                      a. Next Few Weeks

                      b. Next Few Months

                      c.  Next Year

 2. CLEAR THE CLUTTER

      Many people have a hard time knowing where to start, my advice- pick one spot, any spot and if you have a hard time picking one spot - start with your purse or backpack. Your car is also a good place and then try a drawer. I will tell you something- your car and your purse are huge signs for you to tell you where you are currently in regards to emotional clutter.  If your purse is a mess to where you can't find anything-  your probably feel quite scattered yourself. If your car is dirty, it shows clutter in your path. 

      3 types of clutter: Physical- You space - items- these are things you can THROW AWAY

                                   Emotional - Anger, Fear, resentment, Heartache- Practice FORGIVENESS

                                   Self perception- maybe its time for a new hair cut? Change in Makeup, lose                                                             weight even- yes weight is a sign of clutter also- self love is the                                                             most neglected and one of the most important items.

3: Cleanse during a full moon

   - Light a candle after you have cleared clutter. Its the easiest and in my opinion, very effective.

   -Burning of intentions: Write down what you would like to release and burn it. the act itself is a good step towards releasing. 

   - Burning White Sage -  this is a traditional native american ritual and it is one I stand by- because it works.  Not everyone like to do this, so if its not for you that's ok, light a candle.

Set it and forget it : Once you have cleared the space with the full moon intention in mind - you don't need to think twice or wonder if it worked. just trust that it did. if you placed an order on amazon.com and it says "item has shipped" you don't question if you'll receive the item or not, you know and trust that its coming- you wont keep checking "where is it? where is it?" right? so just trust that this process will work and if you are open to it, it is designed to work for you. 

You've picked your item ( manifesting)

You've paid for your item ( intention)

It has been shipped ( Clutter clearing - its being delivered, but will only be  received  if  there  room in the mail box)

think of the super moon as a "amazon prime shipping" benefit. 

Reading for the week of December 14th

1.     1.   Positive Movement Forward

This card brings a wonderful message that you were at a cross roads and have finally chosen a path- the right path with no delays. Stay positive and don’t let negativity deter you- any obstacles you encounter this week is designed to strengthen you not weaken you. These are challenges that can throw you off course if you don’t look towards the bigger picture.

2.    2.    New Beginnings

What a wonderful card , especially with December coming to an end. 2016 brings great energy for you and You are about to embark on a new journey. Set some Goals now for this new year and if you find you need some clarity or guidance, contact me for a reading, I have a wonderful 12 Month Spread that can give you a glimpse into the energies that are waiting for you. 2016 vibrates to the numerology of #9 which is the final stage. Although 2016 will be a new year, It is actually the start of the end so prepare yourself to tie up loose ends and complete any unfinished business. Your amazing new life is right at your fingertips, Those goals or things you felt your were destined to do- you are on your way to doing it. Have faith and hope because the door is wide open for opportunity to enter.

3.   3.     Victory and Success

All your hard work is going to pay off. Don’t give up faith. Keep doing what your doing and strive for better, keep your eyes on the prize because you will win- you just have to keep trying. Everytime you fall, pick your self up and TRY AGAIN- DON’T GIVE UP. The energy your put out this week will come back and you will succeed- You just have to try.

4.       4. Triumphant Success

You don’t know why, but you know you’re going to doing something one day. You know you are not destined to fail. You may have no idea what your going to do, and that is ok. You don’t need to know. Just keep the faith and don’t let doubt hold you back.

5.    5.    Emotional Loss

Heartache lingers in your soul and its causing blockages. When we fail to grieve we fail to acknowledge the loss.  Denial is apart of the healing but somehow you have remained stuck In this stage unwilling or unable to let go. Change is difficult and sometimes it’s easier to not admit the change so we don’t have to deal with it. We get stuck in negativity and we choose to not forward. My message for those of you who are seeing this as your message : Look at your life and find where you are holding on to old heart ache, resentments and loss and let go. It could be the lost of a loved one, unhappiness at work or maybe a bad friendship that you hold on to. Whatever it is that you are holding on to, you will benefit greatly this week if you could start the stages of healing by letting it go. 

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Feng shui for the bed room

Feng Shui

                I recently introduced to this and it was something that kept coming up over and over and over. I didn’t really pay attention to the signs until one day the angels said to me “ If you spend most of your time in the bedroom ,it needs to be your main focus. Your bedroom is your sanctuary, a place of rest and your must create an environment that supports that.”

                Think about guys, In the rain forest where there is an abundance of rain and sunlight we have birds of beautiful colors and everything is so vibrant and full of life.  When go to areas such as the dessert things are more dull and flat in color. Now that in to account on how you judges others; When people are wearing darker colors, they us a different impression and when they are wearing bright colors it gives us a different impression. Neither are good or bad – just different impressions.  Take a moment and think about your bedroom.

                Ask yourself:          “Is there a lot of love in this room?”

                                                “How are the colors, are they soothing for me?”

                                                “When I’m in this space, does it feel calm?”

       I ask you all to evaluate this because these are the same questions I had to ask myself. First thing I noted was the color of my space- did I like it? No, did I want to paint it? No! A solution that the angels gave me add accent colors with furniture or accessories and so I did. I made sure I added a simple comforter in a shade that I loved.  The next thing on my to do list was do something that I would absolutely love!  I was having lunch one day when I felt this push to go to Hobby Lobby  and found these wooden letters and frames to add as a focal point above the bed. ( I got really lucky here thanks to the angels! Everything I bought was 50% off!)  I absolutely loved the outcome! That was one thing check marked off my list. The final question I had to ask my self was this, Does this space feel calm? And my Answer was No! Why? Since I Moved, my bedroom turned into my home office. Too much work and high energy going on – no wonder I was having a hard time resting. I Looked into how to balance this and that Is when I decided to move my “office” out of the room. My office consisted of my Lap top, Camera, cell phone and most importantly, my tarot cards- all these items have been removed from my bedroom. I tell you I feel great now! 

ˈfəNG ˈSHwē,-SHwā/

noun

noun: feng shui; noun: fengshui

(in Chinese thought) a system of laws considered to govern spatial arrangement and orientation in relation to the flow of energy (qi), and whose favorable or unfavorable effects are taken into account when siting and designing buildings.    (www.wikepedia.com)

Why am I sharing this?

Energy is important and simply little things you can do right now can be huge in helping you improve your life. It may sound silly to some but in truth- what does it matter? If it doesn’t hurt, why not try it? You may find you like it! I for one, never thought about changing my environment to improve my energy until my angels gave me the example of the birds in the rainforest – that for me was a huge light bulb! We are greatly affected by what we surround out self with. We are careful with what kind of people we allow into our lives – why not do the same for our living space? As many of you know, I’m big on not having clutter around. The angels taught me, if you don’t need it – toss it! To keep things that no longer serve you is creating huge blocks and the same can be said about your environment. If you don’t love your space- change it! Don’t worry about if it’s a good idea or not. If you feel the need to make changes, the angels will support you – they did for me when I was encouraged to go to Hobby Lobby one day and on top of that, I got 50 % off of my whole entire purchase!

Some Simple Tips I’d like to share:

The bedroom is my main focus today because its where we spend a majority of time.  Make sure your bed room gets your attention and if you are wanting to snazzy up your whole house- make sure you put a lot of love, care and attention with the bedroom first!

1.       Put things that you love in your bedroom- DÉCOR! And COLOR – if it makes you happy go with it!

2.       No family photos or kids items in the bedroom if it can be avoided. If you share a room with your child that is ok- create a personal space for your self.

3.       Take the electronics out- tv’s are big and most people have one in the bedroom – if you can, take it out- if your like me and have a husband who wants it in there- I learn to not notice it. Also remove electronic items away from you- I no longer sleep with my cell phone near the bed or have an electronic clock on my night stand. I’ve actually removed my cell phone out of the bed room all together and this has helped my energy tremendously. I still will use the phone in bed, but when its time to sleep I make sure it’s out of the room.

4.       Placement of the bed is very important – please never, ever…. Absolutely do not… have your bed facing your door with your feet point right out of it. This is called the “COFFIN POSITION’ and in some instances, you may see it referred to the “death position”  If your laying in bed and  your feet point directly at the door – please do yourself a favor and move your bed! Energy leaves through our feet so its not a good idea to have your feet facing a door where there is an exit.

5.       Yes size of the bed matters- Queen beds are ideals for married couples and full size beds are recommend for everyone else, yes even children they say. King size beds are not recommended – they usually come with 2 twin size box springs and this creates a separateness . I personally use to hate my king size bed- it was too big and never felt like I shared my bed with anyone – it created a “lonely space” I now have a queen size bed and I love it. It was funny how it never made sense until recently when I learned a little about feng shui. ( I want to note- I didn’t buy a new bed because of this feng shui, it just so happened that when I moved we bought a new bed, we bought a smaller queen size bed because our new room is smaller. Again- spirits way of transitioning me into a better energy environment. It wasn’t until recently , months after I bought a new bed, that it all made sense) If you can’t let go of your King size bed, take a king size sheet and cover the two box springs or frame to “unite” the energy.

6. Last but not least , Do not place mirrors in the bed rooms. I know they make great decorative pieces but they will reflect good energy coming into the room. 

I hope you all enjoyed this newsletter and that I helped sparked some inspiration in you! Again let me just say, the simple changes I made, really helped me with my energy and I feel great – If you decided to incorporate these changes also, please…. Let me know how it goes! I always love to hear back from you guys…. Stay tuned… Tomorrow… I will share with you what the angels want us to know about our dreams!