Being a Working Mom

This week I wanted to talk about life. What better way to do this then talk about what it's like being a full time working mom! Besides recently launching my psychic reading business, I also work a regular Day time job, am a Wife and above all, I'm a mother of 2 very young boys! You can only imagine how busy my life must be.

My most recent struggle has been about feeding the family. How do I feed my kids without having to spend hours and hours a week, shopping and preparing and cooking meals. The kitchen of all places in my house, is my most disliked area. I HATE to cook. It is not something I enjoy AT ALL. But I have to do. I'm one of those moms who are always on the go, so of course I rely on Fast foods and frozen dinners to get me by. As of recently it has come to my attention how bad that really is, and that I really needed to make time to make sure these kids get a decent meal. Not only am I consumed with mommy guilt that I have to work, I also have issues with my husband because I do not meet his expectations of a typical house wife, I'm sorry – I work full time, I don't have time to cook and clean and maintain an immaculate home every single day! He will tell you I'm lazy, but he forgets He is not the only person who has to work. It's amazing how something so simple, yet vital to our living needs, has become such an enormous task for me. One day I decided to throw out all the criticism and tackle the problem head on, my solution- PRE PREPPED MEALS.

It hasn't been easy, but… last week a majority of my meals were slow cooker recipes and I love how easy it was. I didn't worry about what my kids were going to eat, at the beginning of my morning I could throw everything into the slow cooker and leave it. The kids got a nutritious meal, at least for dinner, my husband didn't have to stress out about feeding the kids and most of all, I killed two birds with one stone! Kids got fed, Husband didn't complain, well actually he did but that's just him. My son recently started first grade, and of course I started to dred the task of packing lunch. I was clearing his back pack and I noticed he hadn't touch the food I packed him, and I was so upset because he didn't eat it! Turns out he got lunch from the cafeteria, and after going back and forth about this, my husband and I just agreed to pay for hot lunch's and you know what, I am so happy that I did because it just made my life ten times easier!

Besides being gone 32 hours a week, when I first launched my personal business, I was not checked in mentally with the family unit. While I was with my family, my mind was in work mode, 24/7 hours around the clock. You can ask my husband – I never seemed to sleep. 5am -9pm I was a working mom. After the kids went to bed I was chatting away with spirit til 1 or 2 in the morning. Free time in between was spent brainstorming my business. There was never a break. One day I looked at my phone and decided I needed to turn it off. When I am with my kids, I need to be fully present and work can wait. I made more time for my kids by reading stories, going on walks, watching movies with them and doing family dates – we went to dinner, did play dates. This was a very hard thing for me to turn off work. But I had to remind myself, work will be there later – it can wait. These kids aren't going to be young forever and I need to be there not only physically but also mentally. And if I absolutely needed to work, I would ask my husband to give me about an hour to do my readings and after that, I put the closed sign up and tell spirit it will have to wait. I really try to limit my spiritual work during the day time to only a few hours if needed. I already work full time at my day job – I don't need to work full time also spiritually! My poor husband has really taken back seat to the kids and spirit – poor guy, I try to fit in dinners where its just us, but that's so rare and few. So on the weekends I make it up by giving him free time for him self, that's ok with me because then I get the kids all to myself ;)

From a working mother's perspective I can tell you, the guilt never stops. I know for myself, I always feel bad that I'm not home enough, my kids are being raised by the education system and day care, my kids are lacking the love and support they need because I'm not with them around the clock. The list goes one. One day I had to sit back and observe other mothers that I know and It made me very aware of how lucky I really am. I'm glad I did because it taught me to turn off the guilt noise and really count my blessings so that I could be fully present when I was with my family. I started this because I really wanted to know how other mothers did it. I work a full time job in a dental office, but I'm am the only person on staff who works the least amount of hours necessary because I want to be home with my kids. I was having a conversation with my co-worker and she had mentioned how she would love to have one day off during the week like I do, and I asked her, why doesn't she just work 4 days? Simple right? But to my surprise, she said she cannot afford to work 4 days. Reality hit me in the gut.

What I really wanted to share was how working with spirit has blessed me. I expressed my concerns, I begged pretty much for a solution and I was absolutely stern about my expectations. And spirit brought me answers. Here my ego is trying to sabotage me by giving me mommy guilt, I had to sit back and ask for spiritual guidance and it was given. You don't have be a struggling working mom. You just need to have faith there is a better way and step out of your own way so that spirit can lead.

My next major problem is the cleaning, here I'm really hoping for a maid ;) got my fingers crossed on that one. I asked spirit for a house cleaner, maybe once a month or something and they laughed and said to me, "don't hold your breath" I couldn't help but LOL.

How to work with your Angels

You can work with any angel, at any time, and with how ever many you wish. Does not matter, they are always there and waiting, you just need to learn to call upon them. I have listed below a quick reference. By calling on a specific angel, for a specific task, you’ll achieve greater results.

Does this make one angel better over the other?

NO, they each have a specialty, and if you were drawn to a specific card, know that your angels are with you and you will benefit working with these ones specifically due to the current circumstances in your life.

When working with your angels, I’ve included some simple steps to get the ball going.

Chant the name of the angel repeatedly you want to invoke until you feel a sudden shift in the physical body, many signs include tingly, prickly, sensitive to sounds, slight temperature changes or tightness in your head. Once you feel them with you, acknowledge the angels gift and ask that they bestow their eternal knowledge and guidance upon you in a way that will be beneficial for you.  Ask that they visit your dreams and deliver clear messages that you will be readily available to accept and understand.

With love and light, I call upon Angel ____________ .

I KNOW you are the angel who can help me with ________ and I ask that you help me now clear away negative blocks in my life so that I can see and hear you clearly tonight in my dreams.  I ask deeply for your help and guidance.

Picture a double door to your heart, these are two doors that open in the middle, open them widely and see a bright yellow sun in a green valley.

You have just opened the door to allow you angels to come in and offer their support. Repeat this as many times as you wish.

This is just a sneak peak at what is offered in my Upcoming Soul Coaching Course.

A. MICHAEL :  Fears, Blockages and Ego related blocks

B. RAPHAEL : Health Issues

C. GABRIEL : In search of life purpose

D. JOPHIEL : people who see life as half empty – She helps us see the beauty in life

E. ARIEL : for people who struggle with environmental issues

F. SANDALPHON : those is desperate need of prayers (usually feel him with your ears pressure change or sounds of light music)

G. ZADKIEL : helps us learn to forgive, not only others but also ourselves

H. RAZIEL : He knows the secret of life – call upon him to find your inner truth, great for people who feel lost

I. HANIEL : Helps us find our hidden secrets – she illuminates our spiritual path

6 Weeks to a more intuitive you

In my 6 week soul coaching course, you will have a wonderful opportunity to change your life, in an amazing way. Do I offer you false hope of promises of magic that won't happen?

NO – I PROMISE YOU A CHANCE TO LEARN TO WORK WITH YOUR OWN GUIDES TO ACHIEVE YOUR OWN MAGIC!

This course is a compilation of knowledge I have been given from my guides. The purpose – I want to teach you, what I've been taught. I want to offer you the knowledge I was given to create a life where you are totally in tuned with your own inner compass. I will offer you the tools you will need to find your direction when you are lost. This course isn't about teaching you how to be psychic. Its about teaching you how to follow your own intuition and find guidance with in yourself.

I will be limiting spaces to 4 slots. By keeping this small and personal ; I will be able to offer one on one soul coaching each week. Each week you will receive a different specific lesson that will last you a life time. This course is yours to keep. I want to teach you lessons so you can better your life, in return, you can continue to share your light upon others; by lighting up the world we make it a better place. This is my gift to you all.

Is this course a generic template that can apply to just anyone? ABSOLUTELY NOT I create each course based off each weekly lesson, personalized to the individual, and when I say I personally create this, I MEAN IT. By limiting my course to only 4 people each session, I can give 110 % of myself to your specific journey. 

What can You Expect in 6 weeks:

Week 1 : Your numerology + Astrology Report – this won't be a full report, but it will be specific enough to target your areas of need.

Weel 2 : Your fears and Blockages – You will learn how to deal with blockages.

Week3: Energy Work - if you've tried my Super Moon energy clearing work, you've only gotten a tiny taste of what I can offer you!

Week 4: Using a Pendulum (You will need to have one for this course)

Week 5: Intentions – The secret to Magic

Week 6: You Support Team – Guides, Angels and Spirits

Meetings:
My course is taught people all over the world! You do not have to live locally to me. I offer meetings via SKYPE. you will need to get an account. There are 2 Live sessions and 1 live group session. You must be able to meet with me live or else you will not get the full benefits of my course. During the 6 weeks you have access to me via email for any questions or guidance you may need.
There is also a small group on Facebook where you will be able to meet and connect with others who have been through the course;) A very positive community.

The Cost:

- I will be offering this course  in January 2015 at a discounted fee of $150.
 In May of 2015 I will set my Final fee of $300, 
where it will remain set for the remainder of my career.
Payment options available upon request, $35 deposit fee to secure your slot, all feeds are due before start day, I DO NOT OFFER REFUNDS.

 Remember this course will only be offered to 4 people, three times a year. 
If you are willing to take the risk and join me in this wonderful journey – I promise you It will not be a waste. With this course I will be able to affect 12 lives in a year – it is in my hopes that these 12 people will continue to do wonderful things and contribute to society, in essences it will bring forth a ripple effect of good energy.

If you are ready for change, contact me for the selection process. Spirit will guide me to the 4 who will benefit most from my 6- week coaching.

Madness in the World

I was awoken this morning by my angels to deliver an urgent message. I never watch the news, I avoid it as much as possible because of the all the negative stuff that goes on, it really heavy's on my heart. So I rather not pay attention. But as of recently, there has been so many things going in the world that they are urging me to spread the world of prayer. Things that are happening, are instilling so much fear into so many lives, and its not about fear. It's a time of Prayer. For many of you who don't think you pray, or get discourage from the word "pray", all it is really, is sending out positive thoughts for the best possible outcome. You are putting out the energy that you wish the situation the best. And that is what we are to do during this time of need.

Mother earth is calling out for health, we have drained her. We have used up her resources, we have upset the balance. Its not a time for blame, but prayer.

Planes Crashing, People being killed; especially children, Illness, extreme climate changes, Wars.

All these things bring a sense of fear, everyone is afraid, and not enough people are paying attention to their inner compass that is guiding them to do something to help the situation.

You don't need a lot of money, you don't have to dedicate your physical body to go help those in need and you don't need to anything that is hard for you, other then just send prayers.

If your reading this, then please join me in a few minutes to send love and light into the world.

Imagine a Map in your minds eye, With your map in focus, send your angels flying around the world (or imagine an angel or something that resonates with you, could even be yourself) sprinkling healing dust. I like to call if fairy dust. I see it falling like rain and it heals everything it touches. It soothes where there is heart ache. And most of all , I pray for the lives lost and the family's who has to endure such a lost.

And that is all that is needed.

Do not send fear into the world, but spread healing, hope and love.