Cutting of the Cords
These
last 2 weeks or so I conducted quite a few readings where I found people to be
weighed down, or held back in life due to the energy that surrounds them. Many of
these people were attached to energies that no longer served them. For the
regular Joe – they are completely unaware that such thing exist but I can tell
you from a “Psychic or Intuitive” view that these energy cords do in fact exist.
I know from firsthand experience myself through trial and error. I talk about
things that I know about, its not just words that I repeat just to make it
sound pretty. My very first exposure to this type of connection came from when
I first began my journey into “psychic training” where I learned about energy cords
and “Psychic Vampires” – this is a subject that I was taught first by my guides
and so it’s a subject I feel strongly about because not only was it the hardest
lesson I had to learn, but it’s a lesson that is forever being learned. Just
because I know about it, doesn’t make me a master- I’m constantly learning more
and more. I find that with every different energy – there is a different
technique and it varies from person to person. When I offer advice on how to
clear cords it’s pretty simple. It’s not hard, what’s hard is remembering to do
it. I personally will go into meditation
and clear cords for others when I feel they need some extra help. Its not a secret,
anyone can do it – the difference in effectiveness depends on the persons
intention and that is why today, I share this technique with you all. I want
you all to understand that I have been doing this a long time, I’ve had plenty
of time and practice to “master” this skill- so my speed at achieving this is
much higher- but just because I can get it cleared sooner, doesn’t mean you can’t
do it. You can do it to, it will just take more time and practice. I’m not
someone who believes that only certain people can do certain things, I think
ANYONE can do ANYTHING. They just HAVE to want to do it. I’m willing to share
my “secrets” so as long as you are “willing” to learn. ( and also that you use
it for the right intention) oh and by the way – this is not “MY “ technique,
this is a skill that was taught to me by the ascended masters- this is not “my
method, it is THEIRS.
So why
clear cords?
Sometimes,
we get drained by others and we have no idea why. We lack energy and focus to
be happy and we find that we are exhausted, cranky and just not happy. Period.
You do what you can to try to lift your spirits, but not matter how hard you
try, sometimes you just can’t bounce back. Depression, suicides and addictions
have been shown to me as thick energy cords that are not only draining the
person who suffers from the issues but it is also draining to those around
them. Sometimes we form relationships
with people, and when they leave our lives, we find we can’t let them go. This
is a big red flag that this other person has attached them self to you. Or say
your minding your own business and then all of a sudden you get this thought
about an event that happened and you get upset. You were fine a minute ago and
then you think about that argument you had with your worker two days ago and
now you’re upset. Again, energy cord. Nightmares are also another red flag that
there is a cord issue. As I mentioned
before, Romance is a popular subject for me, I get many reading request and
request for help in this area- it’s how I came to develop my “heal your heart”
crystal set. What’s very common is that
you form a relationship with someone, and the relationship ends, and you never
can forget them or let them go. They are always there in the back of your mind.
ALWAYS. Why? Why can’t you forget your first love, or that one relationship
from so long ago? Or why is it that you
remain in a relationship that you are no longer happy in. WHY!
Energy Cords. They chain you to what no longer serves you. Its
exhausting and draining.
Lets
get through some Basics: What are energy cords?
When you
form relationships with people or any sort of connection – your form an invisible
energy cord that connects from your chakra to the other person’s chakra. I have
heard of people saying that they have cords attached to all parts of the body –
for me this is not true, it is always seen stemmed from the chakra. The person
may have aches due to the cord being draining, but that ache will usually
correlate with the chakra- not the body part. One time I heard a woman complain
about her leg pain and the healer placed her hands on the knee because this is
where the woman said the pain was coming from. At that time I knew nothing
about “cords” and from what I saw myself, her Base chakra was “inflamed” there
was a cord there. The following week,
the woman still had issues with that leg and I came to realize it was because
the “root” of the problem was not being healed- which was the root chakra.
Another example is that when I see “headaches” it is due to cords form the
throat chakra that stems into the ear charkas. If you listen to people complain
too much – it gives you a head ache – literally. That is just a short version
of what I’ve learned throughout the years. So long story short, for me, in my
opinion- cords stem from the chakras and attach to chakra’s – not parts of the
body.
Why
Cords – you hear people say it all the time, when they meet someone- their
energy just connects. Or they just connect with someone. There’s always some
form of connection and that connection can be good or bad. When you form
positive connections that is great. The cord is often light and CLEAR. For me
there are no colors. It’s always clear – it’s either light or thick. When you form negative relationships with
people – these form THICK and heavy cords. Best way to describe it is a glue
stick you would use for a hot glue gun. Anytime you interact with another living
soul- you form connections and bonds. Its my purpose in this blog to educate
you all how to clear those negative cords and bonds. Please understand that you
can never break positive connections and cords. Its why mothers are always
attached to their children, or when pet owners lose a pet – they never forget
the love they shared. It’s impossible to break.
What you can break is the negative
cords. Those are cords that are draining, leave you angry, depressed or
lifeless – yes I did say lifeless. Sometimes there are people who just “suck
the life” out of you. People who are
unhappy with certain relationships, wish
they could “ let go or walk away” but can’t for whatever reason. They feel
stuck because they are stuck to the other via cord. You have an ex you can’t
get rid of, the mother who is horrible but you can’t let her go because she’s
your mother, or that boss that just makes your life hell. The worst of them
all, is those who are trapped to people with addictions. I attended an
Alcoholics Anonymous meetings for families of alcoholics before where I just
sat and observed. Not judge. Just observe. I saw so many cords, my heart really went out
for these people and I felt I was being drained. It’s crazy how intense that
energy is. It affects you on so many levels, you’re not even aware of and that’s
what makes addictions so hard for people and their families. But this blog isn’t about addictions, it’s
about the result of being around addicts. I’ll save that conversation for
another day.
How to clear them:
First thing you must do is locate
who the cord is attached to. At this point you want to focus on the person who
is attached to you. Don’t get me wrong, you can also attach yourself to others,
but I have found that when people start working with cords and becoming more
aware of them, they tend to not attach to others because they don’t want to be
the one who is draining. When you start to work with clearing cords, you will
also detach and clear the ones you have personally created.
You’ll know if someone has attached
themselves if
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You can’t stop thinking about them
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You dream of them
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You get upset thinking or talking to them
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You feel angry either around them or the sight
of them
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You get anxiety – this person creates a fight or
flight reaction, if you find you have to “defend yourself or run and hide” not
good!
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You want to let go and move on but you stay and
you don’t know why.
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You never forget this person, they really serve
no purpose in your life yet you can’t forget them. Often I see this is “first
love” relationships.
Create a ritual to clear the cords.
This ritual can be anything! As
long as you understand this process is done solely to allow you to remove the
cords that no longer serve you. I often begin my ritual by sitting in mediation
– complete silence. I call on Arch Angel
Michael to clear and protect my energy. This allows me to not absorb any
negative energy. Once I finish this request I ask that Michal “Please clear the
cords that longer serve me” I sit in silence as I allow him to dissolve away
the cords. And that is it. When I am
working with clients, It takes a bit more energy from me- that really is in the
form of sitting in silence longer. I’m not doing anything special other than
allowing my body to receive the angel energy to effectively send that energy to
the person In need of healing. This is
only done by request- I don’t go around clearing people just because I see
cords, they must request my assistance. The reason for this is because we all have
free will and I do not violate anyones space by imposing my belief on others.
Again my method to clear cords:
Call
on Arch Angel Michael. He is great at removing cords.
Placing
myself in a place for silent mediation.
Focus
on the cord I want to clear – either myself, or the client.
Ask
the angels to clear the cord.
Other Rituals I have done and
taught that also work: try it and see what works for you.
Candle: pick a specific candle that
you will only use for cord cutting. White candles are very effective. Light the
candle and ask that the Angels help you clear the cords that no longer serve
you. Repeat that mantra several times until you feel better. Blow out the
candle … and it is done.
Golden Scissors: If you’re a visual
person, imagine a large pair of golden scissors. Figure out who you are
attached to, imagine there is a cord that connects you both and use these
scissors to cut that cord. The cords will drop and dissolve and that connection
is gone. You will feel an immense relief. I recently used this for a
client. She contacted me back the next
day and said she felt better, no clue why, but she felt better!
Journal: the best way honestly to
get any negative emotions out, is to write about it. Its very soothing and you’ll
find if you allow yourself to just sit down and write and be honest with
yourself, its can be very healing. As you write your negative emotions out on
paper, imagine that energy literally leaving through your fingertips. I like to tell people to write a letter to
the person they can’t let go of and once they are done, burn it as a sign that
you are ready to cut that cord. I have
found some of my clients had a really hard time with this one, it because quite
a traumatic process because they found after they wrote it out, they couldn’t
burn it. They weren’t ready to let go. And that is ok. Sometimes that happens
and if it does – don’t push yourself. Allow yourself to feel the emotions and
when your ready- you can cut the cord. Some people have such a hard time
letting go that they will come to me for assistance at this point.
I work with angels and I love to
work with Fairy dust. It’s not actually Fairy dust, it’s just sparkly dust. If I’m around negative people, I know they
will try to attach themselves to me so what I like to do is sprinkle them with
fairy dust to dissolve any negative cords. This protects myself and also helps
lighten their negativity. When I go into
mediation to send healing love to the world what I see is arch angel Haniel
flying around the world and sprinkling it with fairy dust. This is how I was
introduced to the fairy dust. If you have ever seen Peter Pan - you will see
that tinker bell sprinkles her dust on the boys so they can fly.
And that is How I clear Negative
cords. Remember that I have had more time and practice and that is why I can
clear cords effectively. Be patient with yourself and allow yourself to build
up the strength you need to clear your own cords. Don’t rush the process, its
takes time and you’ll get there. I wish you all the very best.
Blessings,
Cyndee
www.tarotbycyndee.com
Angel Chamuel and Healings of the Sacral Chakra
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Pink Candles: are also a great way to invite him
into your space
